I am 39 years old and have been living with someone whom I am very much in love with, for 4 years now. He has been married 3 times. The first one was for 6 years, the second for 11 and the third was a mail order bride from Columbia.
my bf shows no interest in me, and I am healthy, attractive, educated and patient. I have lived with him 5 yrs.On a regular basis he calls phone chat lines and gets phone #'s and calls the girls, he hides all this behavior. I have been to counseling and tried every thing to encourage sex and intimacy with him.
I feel extremely, extremely guilty because I think I kind of betrayed my closest friend - and also found a lot of compromising stuff about him out. Background - we're both 20 year old guys.
